Wedding
Traditions
by Nikola Marshall
The wedding traditions we know today are either
borrowed from other cultures or superstitions.
Cultures around the world have their own, unique
customs. But we'll touch on some commonly used
in the United States here.
The diamond engagement ring has been around since
the 1400s. It comes to us from Medieval Italy.
Centuries ago, the ring was considered a partial
payment for the bride. The diamond eventually
became the symbol for betrothal due to its clarity
and brilliance symbolized purity and innocence.
Ancient Greeks believed the fire of the diamond
represented the flame of love and considered them
teardrops of the gods. Ancient Romans believed
diamonds to be shards of the falling stars that
tipped the arrows of Eros, the god of love. Engagement,
as well as wedding rings, are worn on the third
finger of the left hand. It is believed that the
vein running from this finger runs directly to
the heart.
With roots in Holland, bridal showers were a
way of providing a dowry when the bride's father
did not approve of the groom to be. Her friends
would "shower" her with what she needed
in order to have her dowry and marry who she wished.
In 1499, Anne of Brittany wore a white dress
for her wedding to Louis XII of France. Until
then, women generally just wore their best dress.
Brides have always worn white in Japan and China.
The color of mourning, white was considered appropriate
for the bride leaving her family to begin a new
life with her husband, a symbolic death. White
is viewed in different ways, Early Romans thought
white a symbol of celebration. It stood for purity
in the twentieth century. Today, it symbolizes
happiness.
When the groom lifts the veil at the end of the
marriage ceremony, it symbolizes male dominance.
Should the bride do the lifting, she is showing
independence. Originally, the veil stood for a
bride's innocence, virginity and modesty.
Carrying a bouquet dates to ancient times when
carrying strong-smelling herbs was thought to
ward off evil spirits, bad luck and bad health.
In Roman times, the bride and groom wore garlands
symbolizing new life and hope of fertility. In
the Victorian Ages, lovers would send messages
to one another utilizing particular flowers and
foliage for their meanings.
This touches on but a few of many traditions
over the ages. Although some of the meanings behinds
these traditions are mostly lost to us when thinking
of, or planning a wedding, we still carry on with
them.
About the Author
Nikola lives and writes in Oklahoma. She is active
in her local Citizen's Police Academy and Volunteers
in Policing. She enjoys reading, scrapbooking
and spending time with her two dogs. This article
has been submitted in affiliation with http://www.Prye.Com/
which is a site for Wedding Invitations.
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